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"Contentment makes poor men rich,
Discontent makes rich men poor."
      Benjamin Franklin



Five Secrets of Contentment
  1. Learn to love people more than Money and Possessions
  2. Resist the Urge to Compare Yourself With Others
  3. Maintain an Appreciative Attitude
  4. Choose Your Friends Wisely
  5. Satisfy Your Spiritual Need, whatever form that takes for you.





The Butterfly Theory
A man found a cocoon of a butterfly.  One day a small opening appeared.  He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force it's body through that little hole.  Then it seemed to stop making any progress.  It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could, and it could go no further.

So the man decided to help the butterfly.  He took a pair of scissors and sniped off the remaining bit of the cocoon.  The butterfly then emerged easily.  But it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.

The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that, at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.  Neither happened!  In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of it's life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings.  It never was able to fly.

What the man, in his kindness and haste, did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening were God's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into it's wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved it's freedom from the cocoon.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in OUR lives.  If we were allowed to go through our lives without any obstacles, it would cripple us.  We would not be as strong as what we could have been.  We could never fly!